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Table For One

There comes a day in every twenty-something lady's life when she has to throw caution to the wind, pretend that her social anxiety isn't an issue, and confidently tell the hostess "table for one."

For me, that day was January 28, 2018.

... What am I even saying? There never has to be that day if you don't want there to be. I never wanted that day, but a craving for ramen has a mind of its own. It was the grand opening of Ippudo Ramen in San Francisco, I had only eaten a bite of a cupcake all day, my friends were "too full," and just like that - I found myself confidently whispering to the hostess: "table for one."

To be honest, it was all a bit anticlimactic from then on out. Not the ramen - the ramen was glorious and the pork buns even more so, but it turns out I didn't discover the Wonder Woman within myself or meet my soul mate or realize that dining alone is a newfound hobby.

Instead, the whole experience was - pleasant. Peaceful. I zoned out for 80% of the time: I didn't people watch, didn't hang on to my phone for dear life (well okay, I did a little), didn't read a book. I literally just zoned out, slowly enjoyed my noodles, and then walked out a (Akamaru) Modern woman. <-- that's an Ippudo pun, you guys.
Like I said, anticlimactic.

But I started this blog to document interesting and notable experiences, and if the "dining alone for the first time" shoe fits, then suffer through my ramblings you must, dear readers! 

Perhaps next week I'll go watch a movie by myself. Or take a drawing class, or hike the PCT. And perhaps those adventures will bear more fruit on the self-realization front, but also perhaps you'll be getting another blog post that's like "well I tried that and it was cool, but also my life has not been changed."

Am I making any sense? I don't think so, but let's just pretend we're mind-melding and you kind of get it. To new experiences! However revelatory or not!
The takeaway here is that if my friends are ever "too full" (for shame) again and the craving hits, I'm still down to take myself out on a nice little dinner date.

What is something new that you've tried this year? Or, what's something new on your list that you want to try soon?

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Here & Now | January 26, 2018

No lie, I actually asked someone earlier today if it was Tuesday. This week has been nonstop, so a huge DANKE to concerning levels of caffeine (I've been averaging 5 cups a day for the last 3 days, I don't think my heart rate will be normal ever again). It's kickoff week for my company, and my colleagues from offices across 6 cities all congregated in San Francisco for industry chats, executive presentations, collaboration syncs, and of course - gin & tonics. A true work hard, play hard week: for context, it's been go-go-go from 7:30am to past midnight for three days now.

Eats & Drinks

Like I said: so many G&T's, and non-stop hors d'oeuvres and catered meals and team dinners. Truffle fries and I are going to need a bit of a break now or else I might very well turn into one... that's the delusion talking at this point, by the way. Other highlights: 


Naan n Curry's Chicken Tikka Masala roll for a quick take-out dinner scarfed down in front of the TV. Seriously, what could be better than Indian as a much needed de-stressor? 

Caramba breakfast burritos: I'm terrible about eating breakfast mostly because I run out of time in the morning, but it's my favorite meal. Recently, I've also made an effort to cut down on "useless" (aka Treat Yoself) spending, but I'll reward myself with a nice little morning goodie every now and then. This week, it was a breakfast burrito at Caramba which is right by my office and also dirt cheap so needless to say, the Treat Yoself spending will be ramping up a whoooole lot more. January Lifestyle, be gone!

Just For You beignets. A truly special moment this week was when we hit up our neighborhood family-owned breakfast diner. Not only were we able to take advantage of the perfectly sunny morning by claiming a prime table outside, but also the restaurant insisted on giving us an order of free beignets just because. These are the best beignets in the world and I'd pay like $20 for them, so again... such a generous treat! Love my neighborhood.  



See & Do


I spent Saturday at the Women’s March with a couple of my best girls, and what. a. time. to. be. ALIVE! The sheer energy, the unshakeable solidarity, the grit and passion and strength so incredibly palpable that the air was buzzing: wow. That's it. Just wow.

This kickoff! Broken record reporting to duty here, but I haven't been this exhausted in possibly ever but also it's been such a wonderful week getting to catch up with my brilliant, hilarious, FUN colleagues who I just can't get enough of. 

A second silver lining to the early wake-up calls has been all the gorgeous sunrises! I'd be such a great morning person if I could only untrain my arm to reach for the snooze button instinctively for like 12 alarms in a row. I mean, think of all the Instagrams!


Read & Watch & Listen


I had a funny “living in 2018” moment this week when Hulu was down for a hot second and ended up locking us out of the account... which just happens to belong to my ex roommate's best friend. Three years we've been able to sneakily watch episodes this way, but apparently... no more. This brings me right back to a night right after college graduation when I sat around with a circle of friends trying to determine who has access to what subscription services. I have my best friend's  mom's Netflix credentials, she used my sister's Hulu account and my Amazon Prime, I use my friend's dad's HBO Go and a friend's ex's friend's this, that, or the other. Such is the 2018 life, I guess!



Weekend Forecast

All this girl really wants is a spot of real sleep, but perhaps if I'm feeling ambitious we'll throw some brunch and hangin' out too. I'm also 100% certain my roommates have made weekend plans for me without my entirely knowing - my unread texts are at like 89 now, so this'll be a fun surprise!


Did you make it out to the Women's March? What was the highlight of your week?

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Dubrovnik Day Trip: Wine-Tasting in Croatia's Pelješac Peninsula

If I could re-live one day of my life, there is a high likelihood of my picking this one. Let me set the scene: it's our first full day in Dubrovnik - Cassandra and I are giddy to be back in one of our favorite places on Earth and SO freaking excited to be there with our best friends. It's mid-September and still balmy AF, already warm and a little sticky in the early morning. On the itinerary is a private tour along the Pelješac Peninsula for wine and oyster tasting.

Now, I'll admit - when comparing tour companies, I just went ahead and selected the one that provided the cheapest quote. Come on, we were 23 at the time and we did as 23-year-olds on vacation do. So that morning, we waited in the parking lot, fully expecting a station wagon on the verge of breaking down... at best. We waited and waited, bleary-eyed and half asleep still, and waited some more and then our tour company texted us saying "your driver is at your address! He doesn't see you!" At this point, I swear I thought we'd been hoodwinked, and there sadly wouldn't be any oysters or wine for us in the cards.

Then, like a mirage, a shiny black Mercedes van rounds the corner in slow motion; a handsome fella swings the driver door open with a wide grin: "the address you girls gave was for a pizza place!" (Whoops! Typical.) Then - "come on in, you guys are going to be so drunk before long. I can't wait!" With that, we all clambered into the van and started the day's adventure already laughing.

The drive to our first stop took about an hour, and it was by far one of the funniest car rides I've ever been a part of. Stjepan, our blue-eyed chauffeur and guide, kept us guffawing with his hilarious antics (at one point, he honked at every pedestrian to see who would wave back at us), attempted musical education, goofy questions, and language lessons. 

Our first stop was the town of Ston, famous for having some of the oldest salt flats in Europe as well  having their own Great Wall. Yes - like, the Great Wall of China (you can see part of it jutting out in the middle of the mountains above). We spent the first portion of the morning tasting and buying salt on the side of a road, purchasing fresh figs at the mini farmers' market in town, and enjoying bijela kavas (essentially lattes - but milkier) at a local cafe.


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Here & Now | January 19, 2018

This was the kind of week that reminded me why blogging fell to the wayside for me: because at times, my life is truly boring! My company's annual kickoff is next week, so it's been wooooork work work work work on my end, in preparation. Lots of time spent in the office and glued to my laptop, and not much time for exciting weekday activities. But! GOODNESS, there were still some MAJOR highlights, liiiiike:

EAT & DRINK

This was a December Diet week rather than a January Diet week, if you catch my drift. Leah, Cassandra and I naively thought that we'd take advantage of our day off on Monday to hit up a nice brunch... turns out, half of San Francisco had the same idea. We ended up waiting in line at Mission Beach Cafe for an hour and then being so famished that once the food arrived, we all silently inhaled our meal in the span of 7 whole minutes. Can't really complain though - the food was bomb!

Other notable bites and sips: a hilarious night out at Madrone's Art Bar dancing to oldies music with my besties; a post-hike dinner at Noodle Theory in Berkeley with my friend Hanna's parents that was two-thumbs-up; and this chicken noodle soup that goes perfectly with a rainy night and a side of SNL.


SEE & DO

So, full disclosure: I'm actually dead right now. My 2018 and whole life have peaked, and here's why. I met Dule Hill and Josh Malina last weekend! If you know me at all, you'll know that in recent years, my obsessions have been: carbs (4lyfe), Coca Cola, and the West Wing. When I heard that the West Wing Weekly podcast was hosting an event at SF Sketchfest, I knew I had to be there. It was amazing! Dule and Josh shared some hilarious and heartwarming stories from their days on set - and Dule even tap-danced for us.

Unreal.

Afterwards, there was a real "Big Block of Cheese Day" gathering in the lobby where everyone could grab massive hunks of cheese and chat with Josh and Hrishi from West Wing Weekly. Needless to say, I haven't recovered. 

Besides that, the other highlight was time spent in nature! We spent a day in Oakland, hiking in a redwood forest with Hanna's parents. In true city girl form, there was a nary twig or fern or mushroom that we could walk by without taking a picture. The next day, Leah, Cassandra, and I strolled around Golden Gate Park discovering hidden ponds and quiet nooks. All in all, a rejuvenating weekend!

IN MY CART

This is my new go-to hangover cure. I told my friends that Christmastime will now smell like shame, but whatever works, right?


WEEKEND FORECAST

Other than hunkering down with werk schmerk, I have the Women's March on the docket! Important question - are any of you ladies going and if so, are you making a poster? What does it say?!


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10 Reasons Why I'm Head Over Heels For San Francisco

Nothing thrills me more than getting on a plane headed for new adventures... except for that moment of disembarking the plane and entering the familiar SFO terminals, the thought of being only twenty more minutes away from my apartment. I've fallen hard for SO many cities around the world, but still I'm unbelievably grateful that San Francisco is the one I get to call home.

The choice to live here upon graduation two-and-a-half years ago was a natural one: I was broke from a summer traveling around Europe, in need of a job and a place to live, and so of course the most expensive city in the country was the obvious answer. But thank goodness I was delusional enough to actually give this place a try, because I'm completely head-over-heels for San Francisco. 

Today, I thought I'd share the top ten reasons why I willingly shell out WAY way wayyyyyy too much money for rent and brave the earthquake and nuclear attack risks just to be a San Francisco resident:
1 // The people! A total cliche, yes, but I stand by the fact that San Francisco's diverse community could not be more open, welcoming, and inclusive to all. I hesitate to portray this city as all rainbows-and-butterflies... that is, until I'm out of this protective bubble and realize that 90% of the time, San Francisco really is all rainbows-and-butterflies.

2 // Even though life here can be very fast-paced what with all the emphasis on innovation, the underlying attitude and vibe here is mellow. There's very little formality or rigidity - everything from dress code to workplace culture is flexible and easygoing.

3 // On the flip side, the abundance of technology and invention and scrappy folks give this city quite the healthy dose of excitement and urgency! There's always something new to create and test and ship to the world!  
4 // San Francisco is beautiful. Postcard views everywhere you turn: the iconic Golden Gate Bridge (can you spot her in these photos? Hint: in the picture above, she's peeking out right in front of the mountains), colorful Victorian houses, the stunning bay set against the surrounding hills. An Instagrammer's paradise!

5 // ...and its proximity to other interesting and picturesque places. Leaving the city and driving for an hour in any direction gets you somewhere unbelievably gorgeous: wine country, the ocean, redwood forests, big cities, college towns. Day trips are the jam! And if you venture even further to the snowy mountains of Tahoe or the dramatic cliffs of Big Sur, there are even more wonderful adventures awaiting.
6 // all of the different neighborhoods! In San Francisco, you can be walking down the poshest of blocks, and then be in a completely different realm once you cross the street. And although this can be quite scary at times actually when you accidentally step into a not-so-safe area, there's always somewhere new to explore. Each neighborhood has a completely unique character, climate, and history, and there is so much to admire about them all. My personal favorites are trendy Hayes Valley and the hip, sunny Dogpatch (which is my own neighborhood)!

7 // how WEIRD of a city it is, and just how much its residents embrace this weirdness. Oh my goodness, I can't even tell you how quirky and strange San Franciscans can be. I mean - for starters, Bay to Breakers is practically a city-wide holiday. We've been on cable cars in full Santa suits, and no one looked twice. I honestly can't even tell you the strangest thing I've witnessed because there's always something odder.

8 // I love how it's such a big city in reputation and how we have access to all the perks of living in any well-known city around the world (so many incredible things to do and see - concerts, museums, sporting events, culture), and yet it's still very much a small town in very many ways - you can walk from one side of the city to the other in a few hours, neighborhood spots are still intimate, businesses close early at nights.
9 // the FOOD (give me all the burritos!), the COFFEE, the farmers' markets, the craft fairs, the boutiques, all of the small businesses. People are constantly creating delicious, beautiful, unique goods - and I reap all the benefits. But seriously, this city is foodie central and my waistline agrees!

10 // My bottom line is this: it's been 60 degrees and sunny here for the past 15 weekends straight, so *mic drop.* 
Of course, that is not to say that San Francisco is perfect. Exhibit A: $$$$$$$$ and Exhibit B: earthquakes. Perhaps I'll write another blog post with exhibits C through... E? F? But until then, I'm all hearteyes for this town.

Tell me: where do you live? How did you end up there? What do you love about your home, and what are some things that drive you crazy about it?
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Here & Now | January 12, 2018

Bringing you the Here & Now series, a Friday feature intended to capture my life as it is in this moment: shows I'm watching (better question: what aren't I watching), products I'm excited about, restaurant raves, weekend plans, all of the little things that I was into this week. A bookmark for the here & now, if you will! 

This week... this week was standard. On the rainier, busy-at-work-ier, can't-get-out-of-bed-ier side of the spectrum, but it was full of such goodness too. My dad was in town for a day, so we enjoyed some noodles and sake at a cozy neighborhood spot. I've discovered a new show to binge, had some funny conversations at work, successfully laundered and dry-cleaned my clothes (win!!) and you know what: this goodness deserves to be remembered too! So we have, the Here & Now, Edition Uno!

Eat & Drink


More often than not, our Sunday evenings consist of grocery shopping and then a stop at In-N-Out because... well, because we live in California so gotta take advantage. A couple of weeks ago, In-N-Out released a new addition to their menu for the first time in over a decade: hot cocoa! Of course, a taste test was necessary. Verdict? It was yum, but then again I'd probably eat cardboard if it was from In-N-Out.

Earlier that day, we were visiting a French family who we're friends with. After a made-to-order omelette brunch, they brought out a traditional Galette des Rois ("King's Cake") and the kids (four under the age of ten!) showed us the ropes. If you eat the slice of the (delicious) cake with a token hidden in it, you get to be king or queen for the day. A cultural lesson I fully supported!


See & Do


Like I said, it's been a work-heavy week. However, my weekends are fiercely protected for play! Cassandra and I found ourselves purposely getting lost in the city - it's a concept we picked up in Croatia, when we were encouraged to go "drifting" and letting the geography of the city pull us in different directions. Um, total win.

Not only did we stumble across the most breathtaking view of the city - you could see the Golden Gate Bridge all the way over to our neighborhood on the other end of San Francisco - but also we came upon some heartbreakingly beautiful and thought-provoking murals in the Mission. Definitely putting put of these new finds on my list of places to return to and further explore.


Read & Watch


I'm halfway through The Girl You Left Behind by Jojo Moyes, and am into it - however, it's been a few days since I last picked it up sooooo... no, no, no. Hang on. Pause. I'm going to commit to finishing it, because I can count the number of books I read last year on one hand, and that makes me sad. Will report back next week.

OKAY NOW - THE AMERICANS. Yes, I'm many years late to this one but I watched it out of boredom on Amazon Prime one day and now I'm hooked. I'm almost through with the first season, and it's only been a week. Halp!

Weekend Forecast


Hooray for three-day weekends! On deck: a West Wing event on Saturday which I'm over the moon excited about, potentially some hiking in Oakland, aaaaand... we shall see.

Who has Monday off? Who has grand plans?!


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2018, So Far

There was an earthquake here in San Francisco last night! At around 2:30am, I was jolted into half-consciousness by intense rocking, just as my roommate burst into my room exclaiming that there must've been an earthquake. Upon hearing her and processing the situation, I... curled up deeper under the covers, and promptly fell right back asleep.

Needless to say, I'm now more than a little concerned about my survival instincts.

You might be thinking - what's the big deal? Aren't there hundreds of earthquakes in California every single day? To that I say, maybe BUT after six and a half years of living in the Bay Area, this is only the second one that I've actually felt... and the only one that's been as big a topic of conversation as it was at work today. Alas, I feel like a true Californian now!
The earthquake was really the only exciting update I had to share with you guys, but then I thought a little harder and decided there must've been other events from the past 5 days that could be considered passably interesting. Like...

The FOX show, The Gifted. Anyone watching? Our apartment is obsessed, and we've spent a fair portion of young 2018's ~120 hours glued to the TV. Let me know if you're addicted too because we need to discuss.

My company moved offices within the city - we're a few blocks down from our old digs, but the novelty has been great fun. New-to-us lunch spots, office nooks to claim, fresh city blocks to walk around.

The roommates and I have been binging on sweets and carbs something fierce. January hit and you'd think we'd be striving to make healthier choices, but in fact we've polished off a whole chocolate cake, lots of lasagna, pizza, chocolate, burritos, lemon cake, and I don't even want to keep listing items, because FOR SHAME. I'm going to blame this one on forbidden fruit and all that jazz. February will be our month.
A friend was visiting from out of the country last week, and we took her around to all the sights - Land's End to see the Golden Gate Bridge, downtown to ride a cable car, Japantown for ramen, and obviously Target for... anything she could possibly want. That's what I call truly immersing yourself in American culture!

We saw Pitch Perfect 3 and surprisingly, we all loved it! Also! I'm curious - are any of you a MoviePass holder? Do I need one?
Ironically, these photos were not taken this week, but a couple of months ago. The vibe still felt fitting - fun, and full of sweet and happy things. Plus also I spent $40 on tickets, ergo I spent $40 on these pictures, so they. will. be. used. 

$40 have not been spent on frivolous activities such as the Museum of Ice Cream in 2018, and I'm not saying that I deserve a pat on the back or anything but

*pats myself on the back*
Who knew so much could happen in 5 days?*

*Said only 60% sarcastically.

BRINGING IT BACK TO THE EARTHQUAKE THOUGH. Truly the only matter of importance.

Pray tell, what've you been up to? How's 2018 treating you so far?
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